NOVEMBER FIRST MARIANNE & SEX. HOOK UP SHALLOW OR LIVE FULLY?
Calmness is a superpower.
Consideration for others is simply common sense.
Compassion must also include your self.
Connection in aligned communities.
Resonance.
Reflection.
Integrity.
Sincerity.
Is connection.
The ability to observe and not absorb, to not overreact or take things personally keeps your mind clear and your heart at peace.
Don’t try and run away from your self with meaningless energy draining multiple hook ups
to just fuck or smoke or drink or drug
your way to peace or happiness.
Sex without love strikes me as oddly limited.
Drinking and smoking and using any other artificial intelligences of escapist uppers or avoidance downers also strikes me as limited and limiting.
Not bad, not wrong, not evil.
Just limiting. Why even poison your body, mind and soul like that? Fear? Unresolved childhood “issues”?
Lost in living a half life lie and calling it living? One happy clapping hour of bar stool fools? Pissed before dinner, go home and argue with the partner and kids?
Happy clapping, misogynistic limiting church lives of believing fairy tales? One good book style? Altered whine? Eating unleavened hosts? Repenting, suffering, sinning, ffs? Why even believe such limited tails… (sic) of mostly men telling and selling a limited, controlling business model of purgatory and redemption? Fear. Fire. Brimstone. Why?
It’s as if convenient fuck buddies have agreed to pretend that sinning as sex is particularly exciting, when it’s really just clumsy, contrived, and vaguely sad. Mutual stress relief? Mutual consenting deposits of feral fear, long term shame and any other unresolved trauma issues each fuck buddy partner want to unload… or receive? All ok of course. All included of course. All common of course. Just limited. And often (not always) nothing to do with a full love of the self and also the already full other. Often sex is just a mechanical weekly chore like a shopping list. Often mutual consenting fuck buddies (married or not, long term or not) are just going through the expected chore of a masturbatory humping till one releases or the other one stays or falls asleep… sad and often true.
Sex For love, “love” for sex, confusions or comforts for a mutual mechanical convenience and nothing at all to do with an intimate, deeper emotional connection. And that is ok. Mutual adults consenting. And settling. No wonder simple challenges that arise then turn into conflict or arguments. Neither grounded, stuffed up still with stress or worry or past unresolved bitterness and inter generational conditioning? Merely Limited btw, NOT bad, NOT wrong, NOT evil. Just self ignorant. Until you’re not…
If the mutual, light hearted, flowing connection is clarity, comprehension and family any challenge is worth it.
If the rigid goal is materialism, mind attachment and mechanical stress relief often one sided unsatisfying sex, these values become limiting, toxic and confusing. Those relationships rarely endure, or deepen, even if the two consenting adults choose to settle for less than they deserve.
Beware these shallow and/or confusing, material manipulators.
Beware any limited transactional convenient over sharers. You know the ones, harsh, argumentative, stuck in fixed limited perspectives, egoistical perfectionists, happy clapping people pleasers, limited one good bookers, judgmental “my way or the highway” limited non communicators. The child cave gamers, the distracted limited mind attached happy clapping drunks, the life avoiders still stuck on the bong or baby BOT tell. All included of course. They exist. Obviously. Just not an aligned resonance nor agreed. Why waste time with happy clapping woo woo goo Roos down at the public house church? Or slopping centre? Or over sharing limiting mums or dads gossip groups and weary victim complaining worriers. All included of course. All accepted of course. All within one benign universe. Of course.
Just Beware any of these limiting life victims, the terse drunks or tepid honest stoner run away ESCAPISSED toxicity. Not your circus, not your monkey. But you know who the clowns are… why keep attending these happy clapping non events? Why waste energy drowning in self ignorant swamps of quick sand? Of course, let it be exactly as it is. No fixing, no saving, no interference unless requested. Unless trusted. Unless it resonates as help full and use full and meaning full. Beware the transactional cash extractors. Taking. Comparing. Controlling. Contesting. Competing. Assuming? Oversharing? Thinking they know? All included, remember. All real and included, remember. Just not a resonant alignment. Limited. And that’s ok.
What is your conscious deepest fear? If any?
Self ignorance?
Not realising you already are enough is enough?
Why? Where’s that limiting belief coming from?
Where’s that less than story coming from?
What conditional (limited) mind attachments may you still have to resolve? We all have them, no biggy, unless you choose to centre them and make them BIG! Do not avoid them either. Do not check out with happy clapping vacuity in any form. Do not project or dump unresolved crap on others. If you can help it.
If not, go get some paid help. Pay someone to fix you. Even though you may just be a drunk or stoner. No biggy. Just lost. Just limited. Just pretending in that convenient hook up, relationship or marriage. And that’s very common and very real in many settled mutually convenient self ignorant comforts.
Listen to Marianne below.
What do you think?
Human being. Human kind.
Are you Unlimited with no limits?
Back your true self style?
Or are you maybe still mind attached conditioned
and mind attached cloistered? Going through the motions…
Scared? Scarred? Stoned? Drunk?
Conditionally still self ignorant?
“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate,
Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won’t feel insecure around you. We were all meant to shine as children do. It’s not just in some of us, it’s in everyone. And, as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our fear,
our presence automatically liberates others.”
— Marianne Williams